We have had so much going on the past couple of weeks that my head is still spinning. I will try to fill you in on the important stuff, or at least the stuff that I remember.
Let's start with last weekends festivities. On Friday night, both Keith and I attended a bachelor/
bachelorette party for our friends who got married on Sunday. We both traveled seperately to RI since I was coming back that same night and Keith was coming home the following day. We both had a great time hanging out with friends whom we haven't seen for a while.
Saturday...I took Kathryn to her first gymnastics class of this season. I enrolled her in the class for three year
olds because I thought she could handle it, and she did AWESOME!! Keith came home from the bachelor party in the afternoon, so I took Lauren out for a special afternoon with Mommy. We went and got pedicures and then we did a little clothes shopping, we are still working on her fall/winter wardrobe. She is so cute, she always wants me to buy her and Kathryn matching outfits...hmmm, wonder where they got that...Dwyer and Molnar twins, maybe!?! We came home around 5:30 and quickly changed into warmer clothes and headed out to the
Guilford Fair. The girls and Keith kept busy running from one ride to the next while John and I followed closely behind. We got home around 9:30 and I think everyone went to bed by 10pm (Keith and I included)!
Sunday... Keith and I went to a wedding while the kids stayed home with my parents. The weather was absolutely perfect which isn't always the case for the middle of September. The ceremony was on the beach and the reception was outside under tents and we had a great time...although we stayed out a little later than we had planned and I think I am still paying for it. It's hard to catch up on your sleep in this house...and you will see why once your done reading this post.
Monday...I had my interview at Yale to become a volunteer in the hospital. I am hoping to volunteer on the pediatrics floor working with newborn to three year
olds. They only have 15 spots available so I am hoping one of their openings can work with my day and time availability. I am also hoping to get all my paperwork back before all the slots are filled.
Tuesday...I went to get my TB test done as well as have blood work run to make sure that I was vaccinated for measles, mumps, rubella, chicken pox, etc...My children, as always, were perfectly behaved and did not cause any disturbances in the waiting room or doctors office...holding an almost 12 month old while you are getting a shot and having blood drawn is an interesting scenario considering he is very strong and wants to touch, pull and grab anything that comes within his radius.
Wednesday...I picked Lauren up at school so that she could go on a tour of the pediatric surgery center. She learned about all the things she was going to see and do the following day. She did great, she answered all the questions and actually seemed excited about the whole thing....UNTIL it was bedtime and then she broke down and decided she didn't want surgery after all. My heart was breaking but I knew that in the long run it was going to be best to go ahead and have her surgery now rather than wait until she was ready. I thought the Child Life Coordinator did a
phenomenal job going over and explaining everything to Lauren. She learned how she was going to put a mask on and blow up a balloon, she even got to pick out what scent she wanted to smell in the mask...strawberry, in case you were wondering.
Thursday was a
looooonnnnnng day, we had to be at the hospital at 6:30am for our 7:30am surgery time. Lauren chose Daddy to take her back to the operating room, which I was secretly thankful for because they told us what we could expect to see and just hearing the description made me tear-up. Keith handled everything magically, keeping himself and Lauren very composed. Meanwhile I gave a wave as my eyes welled up with tears and told her to "have fun" because I wasn't sure what else to say. Keith and I started to get a little antsy when an hour had passed and no one had come to see us yet, but just as these feelings were starting to overwhelm us Dr. T appeared...perfect timing! He told us everything went well and that we could go see her in recovery. While I was relieved that surgery went well the recovery process didn't start off all that smoothly, lots of thrashing around and the pain seemed to overwhelm her. After about four injections of medicine into her IV, three
popsicles (2 purple and 1 orange), a dosage of
Tylenol, a movie and a pair of princess shoes she seemed to settle down. Then she began asking if she could go home, it seemed like she asked this question every other minute. The nurse finally gave us the green light after about 1.5 hours. We had a hard time keeping the pain under control especially since she claims to HATE every flavor of Tylenol! We finally switched to Motrin and things have been going much better. She started to walk around this afternoon which I am really pleased to see...because I was convinced that she was never going to touch her feet to the floor again after a little episode we had in the bathroom yesterday...I tried to stand her up to pull her pants up and she decided right then and there that she wanted nothing to do with me and that I was the meanest person on the face of this earth...so glad we are past that.
Today...I took John to the eye doctor for his three week follow up appointment and I found out that we need to start patching his right eye again....oh my, this information was more than I could handle at the moment and the water works got turned right back on. I fear that we may be heading towards another operation since his left eye is pulling inwards again. It is very typical for patients to need a second operation for this procedure so I shouldn't be all that upset or surprised, but still just another "thing" to think about. When we had to do the patching with John earlier on he tolerated it fairly well...not so much today. He ripped the first patch off and when I finally got the second patch secured he grabbed at it and
cried the whole hour he had to wear it. I am really hoping he gets used to it. Keith had a good idea, he thinks we should try to put him in his high chair after we get the patch on and give him his beloved CHEERIOS!! I have never seen a child shovel cheerios into their mouth the way John does...simply amazing. John will be going back to the doctor in a month to see what kind of progress we are making. I am going to check with my cousin Holly who is a physical therapist to see if she has any exercises I can do with him to work on
strengthening his left eye.
So in the midst of this crazy busy week I decided to start going through all our baby stuff and I am trying to sell things on
ebay and
craigslist....feels good to clear out those bulky toys but it is a task to get everything cleaned up, photographed and then write descriptions. So far I have only sold one thing on
craigslist and one thing on
ebay. I am a little discouraged since I thought these used toys would be "flying off the shelves" so to speak with the economy being the way it is. I thought people would be buying things used instead of full priced but what I am realizing is that people just aren't buying!! I think I may be bringing some of the bigger things to a local
consignment store if things don't take in a few weeks.
Keith continues to also be moving at a frantic pace at work with meetings, presentations and dinners. The new website that he redesigned was supposed to launch this week but of course things have been pushed back and the new launch date is November 1st. So I think he will not have too many "slow" days until the new site is up and running. He continues to get lots of praise from his peers and executives at his company...it is about time people realize how AWESOME he is!
Oh, and if you are wondering what Kathryn was doing during all this, she was being dragged here, there, and everywhere. She has been handling all this commotion pretty well. I think things may have caught up with her today because she was acting out and being unusually fussy. I think she is sensing that a lot of my attention was elsewhere. Keith was able to give her some extra attention tonight when he got home, they went for a nice walk and she had hot chocolate when she got home and she was as happy as a clam.
I think we may have something else up our sleeves for next week...but that little tidbit is just going to have to wait until next week :)!
Have a great weekend!
Love,

P.S. I think I have given you enough reading material this week, it just didn't come in the daily posts that I was hoping for.